The techniques here for finding love in modern times will show you how to transform your love life and attract your ideal relationship - starting now.

The “Untoothache” and Transience

August 9, 2010

Another joy tip, from the wonderful Thich Nhat Hanh. When you last had a terrible toothache you knew for sure how good it was to be toothache-free. But do you allow yourself the enjoyment of a toothache free existence today? Bring awareness to all the experiences of pleasure you are having that [...]

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Then I Discovered I Was You

14th century Hindu poet saint, translated by Coleman Barks, in the new book Mala of the Heart:
Playfully you hid from me.
All day I looked.
Then I discovered
I was you,
and the celebration
of That began.
This poem captures the essence of how love finds us. As a client said to me last week, “I’m so in love with [...]

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Internet Dating Debate and Mixer

July 21, 2010

Ever wish you could ask the opposite sex your internet dating questions?
Now you can!!

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“Hope Therapy”

July 18, 2010

I had to laugh when I read the article in the March 2010 Ode Magazine on “hope therapy.” It is based on the premise “people who believe they can move toward their goals will feel positive emotions.”
This is something a clinical psychologist wrote a book about and apparently there have been numerous STUDIES [...]

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Curious Whether the Class Might Be For You?

July 8, 2010

For those of you considering joining the fall (Sept 2010) cohort, take a look at the below – an email one class member wrote to her friends and copied me in on.
If you want to register or have questions, let me know at atieno@gmail
The early bird rate runs through July!
-Atieno
Hey girlfriends,
So, several of you know [...]

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The Baby

How can I blog about anything other than this new arrival? Which anyway has everything to do with letting love find you.
I spent countless hours throughout the pregnancy planning how to best bring this baby into the world: reading a stack of books of birth stories, birth research, birthing theory, sorting through old and new [...]

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The Wedding

June 11, 2010

What can I say about this most wonderful of weekends that might help others who are planning a wedding to have the best experience possible?
Here are some of the things we did.
We did it in a natural setting where people could camp for the weekend.
We had a whole weekend of tubing and talent show [...]

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